Civil Ceremony

The mood of this ceremony is one of festivity and well being. You are here to celebrate your wonderful good fortune and inevitability of it all, how wonderful it is that you two got together and how deliciously right it feels to love one another.

Love really is something over which we have no control. We can need it, wish for it, long for it; but all on our own, even with rigid self-discipline, we cannot insist it into being. Therefore, when love finds us, when the person we simply can’t live without crosses our path, it is truly a gift.

When people marry, they experience many of the strongest feelings they have known. Feelings of wanting to share, of faith in themselves, of belief in another, of trust to tomorrow’s good, of choosing two before one. Marriage is not a moment but a lifetime, marriage is journey. The wedding ceremony is a declaration of the belief in that process.


So let this day be a day of gladness, thanksgiving, possibility, and great good fortune for all of us, but especially for _____________and_____________,

We all live in the hope of loving and being loved, and any sign of the blossoming of love is a true inspiration. Therefore we give thanks for the sweet happiness of ___________________and _________________. Their belief in the destiny of their love is inspiring.

Marriage is a very special place the sheltered environment in which we can endlessly explore ourselves in the presence of another and in which we can offer the possibility of the true reflection of another. We are so happy that__________

And ______________have found one another, that they know in their hearts how perfectly matched they are, and that they are choosing each other as a beautiful reflection of each other’s essence. We ask that radiant power that first brought them together will always be with them in the light of all light, in the love of all love.

A Reading or poem may be read at this time by the officiant or the couple to each other.

The Address:

Out of the routine of ordinary life the extraordinary has happened. You had no idea that you would stumble upon one another at (include here a short paragraph on how you met….)

So today is a celebration for the rest of us, for it is also a pleasure for us to see love in bloom, to participate and witness in your vow renewal.

Therefore , ______________and___________________, we thank you. Thanks for showing us that love can bloom, that marriage is a worthy enterprise, and that

Love is what matters. Love will be the miracle always inviting you to learn, to blossom, to expand. As you know love has seasons, your relationship is a progression, and that love will prevail. Continue the endless generosity of spirit that is needed to nourish one another and sweetly keep the promises you make here today.

Optional Hand ceremony:

Vows: (see additional vow selection)

Groom: My dearest, ___________________, You are my friend, my confessor, my lover, and my opponent. I vow to love you in the sweet times and the support you in the hard times, in sickness and in health. I will love you forever, because you have become a part of me. I love you as my bride, I adore you as my wife, best friend and confidante. I vow to love and be faithful to you always.

Bride: ____________, Heart of my heart, I take you by the hand and hold on tight. You are that one that did not get away. You took me to heart, championed my causes, and dried my tears. We truly have grown together as one. The love I feel today as your new bride is now stronger and more complete. I love you truly, you are the treasure of my life and I vow to be faithful to you always..

Optional ceremonies: Unity candle, Sand ceremony, Rose ceremony, Hand ceremony.

Exchanging of the Rings:

Marriage is a state in which two people come together and create a union which is greater than the sum of its parts. It is difficult to express in words the profound relationship that is love. The ring has long been a symbol of the sincerity and permanence of a couple’s love for one another and regard for their marriage. As the circle can begin a new at any point, so a good marriage can pick any point to renew itself. These rings are symbols of your eternal love.

As you place the ring on her finger, please repeat after me:

I, (groom)____________ give you, ___________this ring as an eternal symbol of my love and commitment to you.

I, (bride)____________ give you, _____________, this ring as an eternal symbol of my love and commitment to you.

Lighting of the Unity Candle:

Fire is believed by many to represent passion and purity. It is also associated with the security of home and the “home fires.” _____________and _________

Will light candles representing the light of their individual selves and then come together to light the single candle representing their union. May it be known to all that they are individuals each unique and different and have chosen the common commitment to share their lives, their hearts, and their home together.

Closing Words:

It is love that brings you here today. Love has given you wings, and your journey begins today. This is a journey no two people have traveled before, it is unique to you. May your relationship flourish and grow together throughout a long and happy life.

________________and _____________. You have publicly declared your love for each other, and made special promises, symbolized by taking your vows, lighting the unity candle, and giving and receiving of rings. By the authority given to me by the state and by the power of your love, I pronounce you husband and wife.

You may now kiss each other.

With great pleasure, I present to you for the first time in public,

Mr. And Mrs. _________________and ____________________________
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